{"id":109,"date":"2008-01-26T04:17:43","date_gmt":"2008-01-26T10:17:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fueledbyrice.org\/blog\/?p=109"},"modified":"2008-01-26T04:23:55","modified_gmt":"2008-01-26T10:23:55","slug":"subject-ff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/0708.fueledbyrice.org\/blog\/?p=109","title":{"rendered":"Subject FF"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am foreign female. Call me Ethina, short for ethnicity. I am from the land of diversity. <\/font>\u00a0<\/font><\/p>\n

Sometimes this land is so diverse, so small and unique, that it is unidentifiable by normal earthling computers at land borders, and it must be validated by passport, bank cards, expired driver\u2019s permit, Japanese ID card, expired American E visa card, or any other official ID I might have to offer additional validation.\u00a0 <\/span>Sometimes it is necessary to take Subject FF into the upper room with mahogany chairs that shine their polished governmental varnish beneath the interrogation light, sit Subject FF down, and ask meaningful questions like, \u201cWhere are you going in Vietnam?\u201d or \u201cYou worked in Japan?\u201d or \u201cWhere are you from?\u201d <\/font><\/p>\n

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After Agent Border Control has run out of meaningful questions, and Subject FF is sufficiently feeling like a single cell organism, she can be released to walk out into the light where she is free to join her American friends and enter Vietnam, stamped and all, like shiny happy people holding hands around a globe. <\/font><\/p>\n

Leaving Vietnam was much easier than entering it. We peddled our hearts out 30 km up the jungle mountains that stretch between its long spindly leg, and <\/country-region>\n<\/place>Laos. We wanted to get out. Fast. I\u2019ve read that the North of Vietnam is far less friendly than the South. My trip to Ho Chi Minh City (in the South) in 2005 was full of fun moments between warmhearted streetvendors in the market who tended to my needs like Grandmami\u2019s with fleshy warm arms. I remember joking in the market with women who didn\u2019t want to go down on the price of fruit, and walking away with a bag of things I didn\u2019t pay for. It was picturesque. It was harmonic. It made me choke a little.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>But this is memory, which always projects itself in vibrant, Broadway musical colors. This was also me as a foreign tourist traveling with Japanese Yen to burn for 3 weeks, looking for kicks and giggles. This was not biking for a year, trying to make my means last till the end of the year. <\/font><\/p>\n

But its hard trying to explain that to a woman working for pennies, who doesn\u2019t have the luxury of leaving her job for a year to see the world by bike, who has fantastical images of beautiful exotic rich foreigners on display boards hoisted up in all her countries’ cities, who equates all the foreigners she sees as better off, rich, able to live beyond their means. <\/font><\/p>\n

So we peddled hard and fast to escape the jeering \u201chellos\u201d and the hands held out from the motorcycles, accompanied by long lipped yells, \u201cmoney, money,\u201d which is exactly what we felt like. Money. People without identities. Foriegners that blended into the pale pink landfill of other foreigners who\u2019ve passed through. How to tell the difference between one type of tourist from another?<\/font><\/p>\n

They called me Feijoren or African in China. So often that, in the end, when we were close to the border, I started to say yes to get out of explaining.\u00a0 <\/span>I had bought a map early on to show people my little unidentifiable archipelago nation. I would take it out, and people would look, and sound it out: Ba-ha-ma. <\/font><\/p>\n

I took efforts to explain that I wasn\u2019t from Africa, meticulously drawing out the geography of my country: <\/font><\/p>\n

\u201cIt is NOT<\/em> near <\/country-region>Thailand or Africa. It\u2019s a small island country in the Caribbean, between North and\n<\/place>South America. Near\n<\/place><\/country-region>Cuba. Do you know\n<\/place><\/country-region>Cuba? See?\n<\/place><\/country-region>Cuba?\u201d I\u2019d point.\u00a0<\/font><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u201cAhhh.\n<\/place><\/country-region>Cuba. Castro,\u201d people would say.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u201cYes. Castro.\u201d<\/font><\/p>\n

\u201cShe\u2019s from Cuba,\u201d they gestured at me, sweating from all the attention.<\/font><\/p>\n

I would smile, exhausted and deflated, suffering from a feverish spell of deportation.<\/font><\/p>\n

Over time, I realized that this emphatic explaining killed conversation rather than nurtured it, people would look and nod, and move onto someone else to wonder over. So, not wanting to miss out on the obsequious attention, (Subject FF, Ethina for short needs her kicks too), I tucked the map into the quiet pages of my GRE book, which I no longer have time to study.<\/font><\/p>\n

But what is a person without a country? A color that blends into the wall, quietly screaming. A foreign devil. A dollar bill. <\/font><\/p>\n

The\u00a0Chinese are paranoid about size like I am paranoid about the name of my country. They\u2019d sometimes ask us, \u201cWhich is bigger? <\/country-region>China or America?\u201d Which is a loaded question when you consider independent states, autonomous regions and indigenous peoples.<\/font><\/p>\n

And really.\n<\/place>Africa is a big place. And I am from there ORIGINALLY, if we were to speak in terms of roots or neo-African, nu-soul, black pride movement. If we were to speak in terms of Vietnamese American, Vietnamese Australian, Vietnamese Brit. I mean, I don\u2019t call myself African Bahamian because 85% of The Bahamas is black, but maybe I should. <\/font><\/p>\n

I’ve never even been to Africa.\u00a0 <\/span>But I suddenly feel the need to take that repatriation boat back to the <\/country-region>Ashanti tribe in modern day <\/country-region>Benin, or join a Rasta Farian commune in Ethiopia. <\/font><\/p>\n

I suddenly feel the need to nod heads with Nigerian and Cameroon immigrants selling Timberlands in Shinsaibashi, Osaka, or Shibuya, Tokyo, or Sanlitun, Beijing, or Kowloon, Hong Kong, with eyes smiling at the sides as they call me sister.\u00a0 <\/span>This is black pride movement coded in covert head nods and side smiles at checkpoints along an underground railroad to the North, like smoke signals, like expats-in-Asia that fish out other expats in disdain. I spotted a foreigner (the game most expats-in-Asia play) in Than Hoa, a small town in North Vietnam, and we both nodded at each other after being formally introduced by the restaurant owner. But nothing more. Meaning understood. Please forget you saw me. <\/font><\/p>\n

But Vietnam doesn\u2019t have a size complex. It\u2019s small and that is all there is to it. And because it is small, its land border between Ping Xiang and Dong Dang towns, which mostly facilitates the passage of Chinese and Vietnamese people, and perhaps never before a Bahamian, it is unequipped to handle cases where new countries come up. And also, because it is small, most of it has been touched by foreigners. It has been mucked by travel. Its eyes, like our eyes, are desensitized, perhaps even hardened to the outside world that comes snooping and prodding. <\/font><\/p>\n

Not many people have called me an African but have assumed I was American or Indonesian, or French, or Indian.\u00a0 I am clumped in the foreigner pile, not set aside in the small country group as I was in China. <\/font><\/p>\n

The country\u2019s slender body has had more time to be infilitrated by foreign tourists than China\u2019s closed borders would let.\n<\/place><\/country-region>Vietnam\u2019s wars fought on its own soil has exposed it to the West. There are ATM\u2019s with Visa and Mastercard signs in the small towns.\u00a0 <\/span>There are Western Unions set up in small towns where you are can’t send money, only receive it.\n<\/place><\/city>Doi Moi, <\/country-region>Vietnam\u2019s economic reform, has opened its markets to foreign investors and its shores to foreign tourists, gently urging its citizens to open their hearts to foreigners, to try and get along with the world for the benefit of the country.<\/font><\/p>\n

And we bike sweatily through the dirt roads in the small towns desperately trying to avoid the bus usurping highway 1,dodging yippy \u201chello\u2019s\u201d and child laughter skipping across the road like pebbles from the sky. They know who we are. It\u2019s like they can sense foriegners from a kilometer away. We must have a smell. Like old people\u2019s children.<\/font><\/p>\n

Unlike China, we have no camera crews stopping us on the road for impromptu interviews to be aired on local TV stations.\u00a0 <\/span>No one has invited us to the grand opening of their restaurant to draw the interest of American investors. No one fawns attentively at us. <\/font><\/p>\n

Instead, we have to bargain hard for everything. Nothing has a set price. Everything is up to the whim of the stall keeper.\u00a0 <\/span>This is making us skeptical. We want to leave. We are paranoid of people\u2019s intentions. These are not the innocent, pure third world country people that foreigners love. These are people with flaws. These are people who don\u2019t give a damn about pleasing the doe-eyed foreigner. <\/font><\/p>\n

But I have always been a bit paranoid, even in China, where people were wide-eyed lovely. Always a chip on my shoulder. These are the side effects of a black pride movement. These are the side effects of a struggle for identity: \u00a0<\/span>Insecurity. Anxiety. Sharp ears.\u00a0 <\/span>These are the fist thrusting attributes of someone who wants to see their pen\u2019s end, someone who wants to read their own writing, lost in the murk of ego and meaningfulness, lost in the mist of their own lofty soul searching points.<\/font><\/p>\n

I killed a fly that crawled out from the sticky bottom of my beer mug, persistent to finish what I’d started.<\/font><\/p>\n

So sometimes, not-so-pleasant experiences that are outside my realm of familiarity can turn ugly in my mind\u2019s eyes. Experience is often so much built from expectation, which is often based on misunderstanding, our mind funneling out possibilities based on prior knowledge. Sometimes a person scowling is just a person scowling because they\u2019re son came home late from school. Sometimes a woman cannot move because she is breastfeeding behind a counter. And sometimes, she thoroughly hates your guts. <\/font><\/p>\n

But until we touch, until we communicate, break the skin of our mental glares, until we reach out past our own comfort zones, we won\u2019t know and we won\u2019t be able to do anything about a problem if there ever was one. We will also not see the kindness in some of the Vietnamese poeple who invited us into thier homes and asked us for nothing in return. We will expect something to linger beneath the surface, and walk away feeling a little jaunted and unsteady. <\/font><\/p>\n

We will remain foreigners in the pink pail foreigner club undistinguishable from other foreign people, a sea of salmon. In which case, running from identity to identity, country to country, movement to movement, gets us as close as we can to the real deal: discovery. The travel bug has blessed me with a curse.<\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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